Great tips! My book club recently chose my novel and I was nervous to sit with them and discuss. It turned out to be a rewarding experience. I really appreciated the conversation and enjoyed hearing about how they interpretated the book as a reader. One of my favorite moments in my writing journey at this point
I haven't graduated to talking about my work, but I was finally able to write about it! I ran across a tip that suggested I pretend to be my biggest fan and write from that perspective. As I was only writing for my own eyes, I let go of my self-consciousness and imposter syndrome and did that, discovering I had quite a bit to say and was able to say it (write it) well. In fact, it was so strong, assertive, and unapologetic I eventually published it on my blog as an intro to my fiction, with links to my Substack newsletter. I cringed a little bit, feeling like a cheater and a disgusting braggart, but I did it anyway. After all, if I don't believe in my own work, why should anyone else?
How I love being the guest! As a podcast host as well, I so appreciate the care a host puts in so I can ramble away. I love hearing about hosts who get to be guests- congratulations on your first appearance this way. Many many more opportunities follow.
Congratulations Simon. I agree with your advice to accept a compliment graciously and move along, rather than batting it away or demurring. As a writer I've had to train myself to do this because accepting praise doesn't come naturally to me.
Talking about yourself as a writer
I think the most important things you can do are to a) convey your enthusiasm and passion and b) not be a jerk.
Great tips! My book club recently chose my novel and I was nervous to sit with them and discuss. It turned out to be a rewarding experience. I really appreciated the conversation and enjoyed hearing about how they interpretated the book as a reader. One of my favorite moments in my writing journey at this point
I haven't graduated to talking about my work, but I was finally able to write about it! I ran across a tip that suggested I pretend to be my biggest fan and write from that perspective. As I was only writing for my own eyes, I let go of my self-consciousness and imposter syndrome and did that, discovering I had quite a bit to say and was able to say it (write it) well. In fact, it was so strong, assertive, and unapologetic I eventually published it on my blog as an intro to my fiction, with links to my Substack newsletter. I cringed a little bit, feeling like a cheater and a disgusting braggart, but I did it anyway. After all, if I don't believe in my own work, why should anyone else?
How I love being the guest! As a podcast host as well, I so appreciate the care a host puts in so I can ramble away. I love hearing about hosts who get to be guests- congratulations on your first appearance this way. Many many more opportunities follow.
It was great to have you! One of our very favorite conversations, for sure.
Congratulations Simon. I agree with your advice to accept a compliment graciously and move along, rather than batting it away or demurring. As a writer I've had to train myself to do this because accepting praise doesn't come naturally to me.